Aug 262012
 

What does this post have to do with David Archuleta? – absolutely nothing but then again it does, so here I go because I can!  This post was originally started last year at the end of a much anticipated vacation.  Then reality struck and life as a full time physician, blogger, wife, mother, you name it took over and this sat unfinished for months, until now.

I recently completed a much anticipated trip to Bolivia, South America, to visit relatives and do some traveling in this country of many contrasts. From the frigid and blustery “El Cumbre” (the summit) the road through the Andes peaking at 17,000 feet to the swealtery foot hills of the “Yungas” where the beginnings of the Amazon basin starts, from the bustling and bursting of life city of La Paz to the falsely imagined idylic and seemingly slow paced country towns of Corico and Huainaya … I frequently was forced to stop and reflect upon the contrasts between my blessed life and those of the hard working people of this poorest of the South American countries.

While touring Bolivia I met some children of the upper class of society here who have much of what children in the USA have – iPods, lap top computer, XBox, the best of clothes, etc.    On the other side of the spectrum I also met children who had nothing more than the clothes on their backs and their shoe shining kits in hand.  Street children earning a living one bolivian peso at a time.   One tenatious boy in particular spotted me (the gringa) in a crowd of hundreds and made a bee-line to me.   He insisted on shoe shining my plastic crocs!  ”Hay plastico zapatos!”  I said, (or I think I said).  ”No problema Senora”, he said.   He shined those ugly pair of Crocs with gusto, doing the best job he could, all the time with a smile.   When he was done I asked him how much.  He replied,  ”lo que tu corazón dice” (what ever your heart tells you).  

Talking about having some “street smarts” – this young man knew exactly what to say and who to say it to. ;) I emptied out my pockets and purse of all the bolivian money I had accumulated up until that point. According to my father-in-law, a months worth of hard work. To me however, it was just one less trinket purchase of something I really did not need.

We often take for granted what we have or often complain about the “hard work” we have to do in order to obtain all of our stuff. If you are reading this, you are blessed because you have some sort of device or access to one in order to read. Something countless millions in this world will never have our lives being in such contrast to many.

So, while I fully intend to spend some time on this site with my best Archu-buds, I hope to focus more of my life on my family and also into doing good for others and hopefully take my own child along for the ride. He recently helped to pick a Bolivian girl to sponsor through ChildFund – but that is just one small step in the right direction.

In this end, I am stepping back from day to day management of FanScene. In the next few days this website will be taking on a new diminished posting format, but we will still be here, you know where to find us.

~ArchieFanDoc

  33 Responses to “Reflections – Life in Perspective”

  1. Beautifully written, Cathy. Off to work, but will leave a proper comment when I get back. <3.

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  2. Well written & love the pictures!! Thanks for always being here & your great posts & comments!

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  3. Thank you so much! I have often thought of David’s plea for us to BEGIN. to do something! and many times we sit and chat on the computer while valuable time is wasted. I really appreciate your sharing with us your thoughts and experiences. It means a lot! Thank you for all your hard work on this site. It brings us all together and helps us “see” David. Looking forward to the future! Thanks again Doc and all those who work and serve at this sight! It is much appreciated!

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  4. Thank you for the beautiful article. I understand why the diminished posting format, it really sounds like you have a lot on your plate, but, at the same time, so happy you are leaving it open. IMO, David needs as all his fan sites to stay active.

    Not worried about his sites this year, but next year is going to be hard. I just hope that David’s team have a few things to give his hungry fans to carry us through until he returns.

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  5. This is beautiful Doc~C. Thank you for sharing this and saying what is in many of our hearts, and saying it so beautifully. There is so much we all can do for people in need during the next 18 months. Also, so much to look forward to! :) Oh, and thank you for being here for all these years! Jana

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  6. Awesome, Awesome post AFD! This is the kind of post that really gets you to think.

    And of course thanks to you, and everyone here at AFS.

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  7. AFD, Thanks for all you guys do at fan scene! I know its lots of work and I do appreciate it! Emily

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  8. I am glad you finished your article and finally posted it!

    I’m sorry to say I didn’t introduce myself to you awhile ago though you were sitting right next to me with Janey across from you haha! It was at Panda’s near The Grove in Anaheim.

    The sentence “We often take for granted what we have or often complain about the “hard work” we have to do in order to obtain all of our stuff” was making think of how I’m spending my weekends working and then you mentioned ChildFund which made me smile. I am working on weekends on a side project to help a friend help his friend. When my friend came to me with the project, I remember thinking how perfect the timing was. With David going on hiatus, I have time! I accepted the project with my ChildFund Child in mind! It will pay for her for many more years to come. Even so, on occasions I catch myself grumbling about working 7 days a week. But I stop myself and think how cool it is to be able to say “I’m working hard for my child!” lol not having any of my own.

    May you enjoy your next two years or so focusing on your family and on helping others. We will all still be here.

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  9. I love this article! It’s always good to have reminders of those people in the world who don’t have much but still have hope. Best wishes to all of you in your own lives and in your efforts to help others and help your own families understand our complex world.

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  10. THIS…is my favorite FanScene post ever. You ARE a writer, after all! :) I especially love the story about the young Bolivian shoe-shine boy who answered you with, ”lo que tu corazón dice” (what ever your heart tells you).” That phrase is parallel to what finally prompted you to make this important decision. I think it’s a great decision – even though you are a FANTASTIC manager – because now…I can hog more of your attention, lol. Sorry, David. ;) Love you, Doc!!!!! < #3

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  • Well written. I have been very quiet in the fan community. Lots of changes going on and I can’t wait until it is all said and done! :-)

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  • Beautifully written. I love what you said about taking things so often for granted. Wish you the best and understand perfectly. Thanks for you and all the others on this fabulous fansite for all you do!

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  • Sending you a loving hug, Cathy, with warm wishes for continuing with what matters most. The challenges with my health this year have made me focus inward, not outward as I’d like. I very much regret that we never managed to sit together at a concert or find a corner to chat in. Who knows what the future brings, eh?

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  • The fans will miss your day to day interactions on the internet, Cathy. I have admired your devotion to David and the charities that you hold close, as well as your guidance on the Good Place charity.

    However, your family comes first and I love the goals you have planned for yourself. I want to hear all about the Childfund connections in the future. Such a great charity.

    Hope to meet you eventually!!!!

    All the very, very best. Mary Lou

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  • BRAVO, Cathy! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and decisions in this profound reflection. I, too, have told myself that life is too short (the older I get) and I find myself busier than ever, tho I retired back in 2000. My grandchildren are mostly grown now, but they are still my main focus, because of their own focus and interests! I don’t want to spend my “Autumn years” wishing I had done more with them… and I can happily say that I have no regrets! I will miss seeing you here on a regular basis, “ArchieFanDoc”, but you’ll be in my thoughts! :)

    I still recall the first time I met you… at the “Bonnie Hunt Show”! Hope to run into you somewhere again, on this ‘road-of-life’! Remember the offer I made to you, to visit a ‘certain place’ in San Diego? The offer still stands, family included!

    ((( Hugs ))) and best wishes to you and your family! ♥

    Lily

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  • Oh, especially thank you so much for the wonderful Sunday puzzles….Loved them. I’ll especially miss them.

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  • Cathy,

    You are one of a kind as we have been on the “charity” side of things as partners for the past 3 years. You are an amazing person with a heart of gold that has so much good to do for the world…. Time much better spent than chatting on the computer .

    And you know first hand as well as I do…priority to David..the artist we all adore..is to do good and give back to our communities..you are making us all proud and we need to all follow suit!!

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  • Doc, Thank you for these inspiring words. It IS time for ALL of us to Begin the next phases of our lives. Whether it is time to make changes for our own betterment or the betterment of others, we must Begin before something can happen.

    Change is inevitable in our lives, no matter how much we try to fight it. And even if we want to make changes and grow, we still fight it. I know I’ve fought it tooth and nail. Way too many things are changing in my life right now and, although I knew these changes were inevitable, I’ve still tried my best to put them off as long as possible. David leaving on his mission was only the tip of my drastically changing iceberg. My son, my just barely 18 yr old, no-longer-a-baby boy, leaves for the Navy in 16 days, on September 11th, no less. My life will never again be the same as it was and neither will his. I am so proud of him and his decision to serve our country and the world, but it is not easy to accept this change in my life. But I must accept it and make my own changes as well.

    Although I will miss your daily contributions to AFS, I applaud your decision to spend more time focusing on your family. The time we have with our kids under our wings is way too short. From one mom to another, spend every second you can with your son. Your son’s life will be enriched greatly by your vast knowledge of the world and you will gain a new perspective on the world when looking at it through his eyes. And showing your son how to do good in this world through your own actions of helping others will set a great foundation for him to build on as he grows into adulthood.

    All the best to you,
    Margy

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  • Doc, “whatever your heart tells you” is exactly the right thing to do … all the best on what your future holds!

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  • I love what you just wrote so well written. People do take advantage of their day to day living and some doing it well as i am one of them, thank u for posting it cause now i know that i can go to work and work as hard as i can and it wont be as hard as those kids are working. David would love to read this and would be so proud. THANKS AGAIN.

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  • Bless your heart Cathy Love your story and appreciate your dedication to those that most need your attention. Grateful for all you do for David, fans, family, charities etc.
    Will stop by on my rounds as time allows. :) ) Thanks to FanScene My Best to you always!

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  • Enjoyed your heartfelt story. Will miss the crossword puzzle. I looked forward to it every Sunday after church! Take care and God Bless!

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  • Thank you everyone for your kind comments, getting verklempt here (that was for you Marc).

    Oops, I forgot to publish todays puzzle …. here it is, one for the road ;)

    http://archuletafanscene.com/2012/08/26/fanscene-sunday-puzzle-one-for-the-road-afd/

    I have a bank of puzzles already done at Jigsaw planet and we can tweet those, I’ll just not be putting them up in a post.

    Hasta luego

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    • Cathy, I want to thank you for your leadership. While I still consider myself the new kid on the block, having been here only a year and an half, I know how time consuming running a fansite is and I always appreciated you making yourself available to me, no matter what the issue was or the time of day I approached you with it. Good thing we’re both night owls and roost in the same time zone, ha ha.

      On a more serious note, few people know what goes into running a site, especially one as popular and well-known as FanScene. You make it seem effortless and seamless, but you can’t fool me. There are constantly numerous decisions to be made and I always felt like my voice was heard and even appreciated, so thank you for that, too.

      To our readers, FanScene is NOT going away. I hope what Cathy is doing sets an example for others in that they can feel OK to take a break while David is. Personally, I’m looking forward to a little “time off” too. It’s been almost 4 years (Sept. 28th 2008) that I started writing/working for a fansite (Who remembers Snarky Archies?) when fansites were absolutely necessary for David’s career. Back in the day, it was the only way to disseminate information to fans; how else were we to know about tour dates? vip tickets? tv appearances? Now, with little going on and David’s Official Site doing a superb job with updates, our being here on a daily basis is no longer essential.

      I promised David I would be here for him in 2014, I have every intention of keeping that promise.

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  • Sorry I am so late, Fan Scene was the very first place I had a chance to write anything.Everyone was always very nice to me. I really enjoyed ,checking about David everyday. THANK YOU!! GOD BLESSYOU.

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  • Thank you for all the faithful years Fanscene has contributed to David’s career and to everyone who has been a part of it. As a fan it’s been a blessing and my thanks go to Todd, Doc Cathy and everyone else who has worked on it since David was a wee boy. He’s been fortunate to have so many loving, caring people in his corner.

    God bless you all. <3

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  • Thank you Cathy, for your beautiful devotion to David, his charities, and all the fans for the past 4 years. The little “voice” who told you to give “whatever your heart tells you” sounds like a similar voice David listened to in his decision to serve his mission, and similar to the voice inside you are following now. That is a beautiful thing and I know that your life and your family will be enriched and blessed. <3
    Looking forward to hearing about the new adventures you are BEGIN.ning. during this time. Thank you for all of your time, effort, and love with AFS, and for inspiring so many others with your work and example. :)
    Hoping to finally meet you in 2014!! :)

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  • Thank you so much Fan Scene, I appreciate all your hard work all this years. You keep us fans happy with all your update & news about David. I will greatly miss you. I don’t post comment but I always visit your site everyday. I’m from Vancouver Canada & I hope I’ll be able to meet you all someday & thank you personally. Take care & all the best.

    Maribel

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    • bel1archie:
      Thank you so much Fan Scene, I appreciate all your hard workall this years. You keep us fans happy with all your update & news about David. I will greatly miss you. I don’t post comment but I always visit your site everyday. I’m from Vancouver Canada & I hope I’ll be able to meet you all someday & thank you personally. Take care & all the best. Hope to see you all on 2014

      Maribel

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  • Hi Cathy!!
    Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful story about your recent trip…and thank you for this reminder of how truly blessed we are, of how we can pay it forward and of what is truly important in this world of ours… I also want to say that I am so grateful to you for all that you have done for Fan Scene, for David, and for me, personally, as you have always been so supportive of what I have written and done in so far as David and Fan Scene is concerned…I treasure our friendship and admire you – you are amazing and I hope to tell you that in person one day!! In the meantime, enjoy those beautiful sunsets!!
    All the best…just me…
    sharon g

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  • I love what you said so much, Doc. It does put life into a bit more perspective for me, as I’m going through changes in life too, so thank you for that. I respect your decision to spend more time with your family. They are the people who matter the most.

    Thank you for all that you have done, Doc. I consider you to be a really good friend, and someone whom I admire, including for how you have managed Fanscene, but also beyond that. Thank you for being there when I needed your input on the David things that I write – I really appreciate your opinion. I look forward to seeing you around (and hopefully in real life soon, lol)! *hugs*

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  • I’ve always enjoyed your thoughts and your friendship. Thanks for all your hard work. I’m sure David is happy when his fans put first things first, and focus on family and serving. Enjoy! And wave hi now and then. :)

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  • Hi Doc, there aren’t too many words to describe what you have done and will do going forward. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH. I do love FS, but the voice calling is something else. Be happy….enjoy and may God Bless and Keep you safe. Thank you so much for your dedication. Fondly, Madeline

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